This platform exists for one thing: great platonic company. Dates, conversation, plus-ones, video calls — never anything sexual, and never for money. These rules protect every member, and we enforce them without exceptions.
The five rules
1. Strictly platonic. Requesting, offering, or hinting at sexual services — on the platform or off it — is a permanent ban on the first offense. No warnings. This covers everything: chat, dates, and any commissioned video message. A personalized video is a birthday or good-luck greeting, nothing else — it's reviewed by a person before delivery, and anything sexual or explicit is refused, deleted, and can end the account that made it.
2. 18+, and honest about who you are. Every member passes an 18+ age check. Fake identities, borrowed photos, or helping an under-18 person use the platform: permanent ban, and where the law requires it, a report to authorities. To be exact about what our check is and is not, read Terms section 6 — it is an age check, not an identity check, and you should still use your own judgement about people.
3. Keep it on the platform. Payments and first-meeting arrangements stay on-platform. Moving payment or contact off-platform removes the protections both of you rely on, and is grounds for suspension.
Also: never record a date. No recording, screenshotting or streaming a video date, and no recording an in-person meeting, unless the other person has expressly agreed. Permanent ban, and depending on the circumstances it can be a criminal offence.
Video dates are live, private, and unrecorded. The picture and sound go straight between the two of you — they never pass through our servers, and we never watch or record a call. That is your privacy. It is also why these rules sit with you: no nudity, no sexual acts, no sexual language on a video date, ever. If the other person exposes themselves or turns the call sexual, end it and report them — one tap, and because the call isn't recorded, reporting it quickly is what lets us act. An accidental slip that is dealt with in seconds is not the problem; refusing to stop is a permanent ban.
Anything involving a minor is different. Sexual content involving anyone under 18 is reported to the authorities the law names — in Canada, the Canadian Centre for Child Protection (Cybertip.ca) and police; in the United States, the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC CyberTipline) and police — and no privacy promise on this site overrides that. If you ever think someone on a call or in a chat is under 18, leave and report it.
4. Public first meetings. First in-person dates happen in public places — a café, a restaurant, a busy street. Not a home, not a car, not anywhere private. Companions set their own boundaries; clients respect them the first time they're stated.
4b. The client pays for the date. The booking covers the companion's time. Dinner, drinks, tickets, entry, transport — whatever the two of you do — are the client's to pay, on the spot. A companion never pays for any part of a date and is never asked to be reimbursed later. Leaving a companion with a bill is grounds for suspension; if it happens to you, report it.
5. Either person can end any date, any time. If you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, leave — no explanation owed. Then report it so we can act.
How enforcement works
Messages are screened automatically for solicitation, off-platform payment steering, and under-18 signals. Flagged content goes to a human. Every report is reviewed, usually within 24 hours, and every action we take is recorded. We cooperate with law enforcement on anything criminal.
Why we're this strict
Because it's what makes this platform safe to use and legal to run. The rules aren't fine print here — they're the product.