Questions, answered honestly

Neither. Everything on the platform is strictly platonic companionship — conversation, events, activities, video dates. Anything sexual or romantic is against the rules, is screened for in every message, and leads to a permanent ban.

Yes. Paid platonic companionship is legal across Canada and the US — like hiring a tour guide, a coach, or a plus-one. We enforce the platonic rule strictly, run an 18+ age check on every member, screen every message, and keep safety records, which is exactly what keeps it that way.

Browsing is free, always. Each companion sets their own hourly date rate (typically $25–60/hour). A 20% platform fee is added on top of her price at checkout — she keeps 100% of what she set, and every total is shown all-in before you pay. You can also send a free intro request — if the companion accepts, you get a 24-hour chat window without paying anything.

Every date — virtual or in-person — is paid online at booking. The money is held safely and only released to your companion 24 hours after the date ends. If something goes wrong, tell us within that window and we freeze the payout while a human reviews. No cash at dates, ever.

You propose it, she agrees to it. When you book an in-person date you write what you have in mind — the place and the plan — and she reads that before she accepts. She is agreeing to that specific plan, not to an unknown afternoon, which is what makes accepting safe for her and makes the date predictable for you. If she'd rather do something else she can decline and say so, and you can send a new request. Once you're both there, plans can change the way plans do — but the place should stay public on a first meeting.

Nothing is charged. Booking places a hold on your card, not a charge — if she declines, the hold is released and no money ever moves. She can tell you why from a short list, and add a line if she wants to, so a 'no' to a Tuesday doesn't read as a 'no' to you. Declining is free for her on purpose: the moment saying no costs a companion something, she starts saying yes to dates she doesn't want, and that is exactly the situation this platform exists to avoid.

If she cancels: automatic full refund, including our platform fee, no questions asked. If she doesn't show, tap “Something wasn't right” within the 24-hour protection window and a person refunds you in full. If a client doesn't show, the companion is paid in full — they reserved that time.

What she keeps depends on how much notice she gets, because notice is the only thing that decides whether she can fill that slot: more than 48 hours, full refund; 24–48 hours, 75% back; 2–24 hours, 50% back; under 2 hours or a no-show, no refund. Our platform fee comes back in full at every step, including the no-show. A companion who blocks out your Saturday has turned down other work for it, and at two hours' notice she cannot replace it — someone carries that loss, and it shouldn't be the person who did nothing wrong. Real emergencies happen; tell us and a person reads it.

Not a stiff video call. You pick an activity when you book: a synced watch party, a game night, cooking the same recipe together, a coffee date with conversation cards, or a co-working session. The date happens in our own video room — timed, moderated, and never recorded. The video itself is end-to-end encrypted and flows directly between the two of you, the same way WhatsApp calls work — it never passes through our servers.

Virtual dates work everywhere in Canada and the US from day one. In-person dates unlock city by city as we verify enough companions there — currently Toronto, Ottawa, Mississauga, Hamilton, and London, with more opening from the waitlist.

Apply from the site, complete the 18+ age check, and wait for a person to review your profile — companions are never approved automatically. You set your own rate and availability and keep 100% of everything you set; our platform fee is charged to clients on top of your price, never out of it. Payouts run weekly once payments open. For the first 50 Founding Companions, clients pay half the platform fee for 12 months — being founding makes you the cheapest choice on the site, not just the earliest.

Every member completes an 18+ age check before they can message or book — a government ID plus a selfie, checked by AI, with a person reviewing anything uncertain. The check is not perfect; it is one layer alongside message screening, public first meetings, and reporting. Every message on every channel is screened. First in-person meetings happen in public places. Video dates are never recorded. There's a report button everywhere, and a real person reviews every report.

Card details never touch our servers (our payment processor handles them). We never store your ID or your age-check selfie — they are processed in flight by our AI provider in the United States and discarded; we keep only the result. We never sell your data. See the Privacy Policy for the full picture.